There and back again.

Lunchtime, the Sunday before Christmas, 2012. That would make it 23rd December if my maths is correct.

We are on Southwold beach in north Suffolk and though it isn't raining the wind-chill means that we are in 'survival mode' - thermals are vital apparel. My brother, 'John-the-elder', and myself are returned to the hunt, only this time we have brought a 'youngling' with us in order that we might induct him into the tribal skills of fishing from the beach. The 'youngling', is my son, named 'Joe-Bilbo' and he is puppy-eager to begin.

We counsel patience. There are arcane signs in this bleak and to many, featureless landscape. We must first take time to read them. Is the tide on the ebb or flow? What will happen with the weather ('John-the-elder' has much to say on this)? Where are the fish most likely to be found given that there are small breakers 150 yards from the shore? Which bait, ragworm or squid, is best suited to the conditions?

We claim our portion of the deserted beach and skilfully assemble our equipment. I demonstrate to Joe the necessary but brutal art of baiting the hook. Deftly, I disembowel a worm and work the hook through it to ensure that it is not lost when the cast is made. Blooded, I sense Joe's rising excitement, his wish to test himself.

Again, I (sometimes known as 'Greybeard') counsel patience. There is no 'youtube' here to offer assistance. I deploy well-honed pedagogic skills, forged in the furnaces of  innercity classrooms, to help demonstrate the need for co-ordination of hand and eye, the importance of releasing the line at the precise moment the weighted 'trace' (technical term - see glossary) is launched in the desired direction. At its best, this choreography of man and rod (no relation) has been likened to four dimensional poetry.

I make a first, laboured cast of just 50 yards or so and hurriedly withdraw the line in order to allow Joe an opportunity. My tuition receives instant reward as he synchronises effortlessly to drop the weight with a satisfying 'plop' 100 yards distant into the deepest part of the trench that lies between ourselves and the breakers. John and myself take turns to use our second rod whilst keeping a 'weathered eye' on the youngling. My son is expectant. I smile in a knowing way to my brother and he returns the same - 'the boy has much to learn'.

Whatever the odds against success, we share the responsibility of awareness that back in our faux-traditional, black, weather-boarded, barns , rented for a full week, there are women and children dependent on our efforts. The nearest supermarket may not be open throughout the Christmas week and our numbers on Christmas Eve will swell to twenty as the tribe gathers for the annual ritual.

Distracted by our cares, we are at first unaware that Joe has decided to reel in. He says that he has some resistance on the line and I assure him this is likely to be the seaweed I have already encountered from my own casts. Then I see the silver agitation in the shallows and leap to help him with the catch. The fish is fat, sleek and writhing in my hand as I remove the hook.

In Dorset, Norfolk and most recently at Aldeburgh, a few miles to the south, my brother and I have spent many, many hours in quest of a fish worthy of putting on a plate. In fact neither of us has ever caught a (marine) fish as large as this. Now, Joe, with virtually his first cast has landed a sea bass (initially identified by myself as 'a large whiting'; a mistake rectified by a passing fisherman) worth £20 to a local restaurant. Later, Joe insists that Judy (who together with Diana has brought lunchtime sustenance) takes photos of him with rod and fish held aloft.

John and I continue fishing for several hours, long after Joe has lost interest and left us to explore Southwold with Oren, Ella and Claire. Between us we manage to catch several more small whiting and dabs but nothing like Joe's sea bass. It is the only fish we will eventually cook and eat. Though admitting it chokes me like a half-swallowed fishbone - it was delicious.

Fast forward to now. The stay in our well-appointed Suffolk barns was a great success. Photos can be viewed on my facebook home page or that of Chris Ling, Claire Lichtenstein, Anna Holland or Stephen Ling.

The week was unique, including as it did just about everyone on the 'Lingside'. To be honest, however, I was largely a spectator over the course of that memorable week. Everyone mucked in and created something truly special but it was as much as I could do to maintain some of the daily routines that have become so important to me. There were occasions when I lapsed from my healthy lifestyle and consumed some alcohol, turkey, chocolate and even a couple of pieces of gammon!

Back home our vegan routines have been re-established and given that I'm at the 'top' of my chemo phase of the cycle, I'm feeling pretty good. No doubt this improvement with sore-feet syndrome and fatigue is due largely to the reduced dosage that was agreed back in October (see 22/10/12 post). What remains unknown is the consequence of this reduced dosage for the efficacy of the drugs. The next CT scan, to be discussed with my oncologist in late January, will give us an answer.

I would like to send a Happy New Year greeting and much love to everyone who has made it this far. Oh! and I have managed to see 'The Hobbit - An Unexpected Journey' in the company of Joe and his old schoolfriend Matt before Joe returned to Durham.

But you may already have guessed as much.